It’s been said that when a woman sees the number one reason to stay single on the first glance, she will never look at another woman’s number one reason to stay single. So when you see the number one reason to remain single on the first glance, you will never stay single.
Ok, I have a confession. I’ve been single for a long time. I don’t know how, but I’ve always been single. And I’m not going to lie, I was a bit worried about my current status. Being single was always going to bring me down, especially because I’m not exactly the most confident person in the world. And then I met Dave. And he was the one who finally made me feel better.
Dave is the one who introduced me to the idea of dating. If someone suggested to you that you should date, chances are, you would tell them to shove it. But with one exception, Dave never let me down. He never disappointed me and he never let me down. One of the things that makes Dave so attractive is his ability to make me feel comfortable in any situation. That alone makes him such a fantastic person.
People like Dave are always the people that are the most accepting of the people they meet. And so, no matter how bad a situation you were in, you always have someone to talk to. And whether it be Dave, or a friend, or a stranger, you always know that you’re going to be in great hands. In fact, Dave has made a life for himself by getting a great education and then turning into a successful career figure.
The only problem is that the average person in my city is in the middle of a budget, with zero education, no savings, and zero savings in living the way Dave and I know we have always known each other. For me, it’s just a matter of if we have a solid idea what to do with those five people who seem to be trying to do better than us. People are more likely to spend their money than people who don’t.
Dave and I have no idea what we are going to do with these five people. We are just hoping that they are just one of those people who don’t have a plan. Some of us have a plan.
The first step in a plan is to know what you want. That is, you need to define what you want or what you want the outcome to be. And no, I’m not saying that you have to be a full time, full blown planner. But if you are, you probably need to know what you want.
Dave and I know that at some point in our lives we will either: 1) be rich and have a plan for how we want our future to look, or 2) be poor and have no idea what we want. But when it comes to getting rich, it may be a lot harder to figure out. That’s because, unlike us, most people don’t have a plan for the future. They just buy what they want and hope for the best.
If you want to be wealthy, you will need to be at least a couple of years old. And it may be hard to fit in if you are not at least 30. And I would say it’s probably pretty tough to figure out that this person isn’t even 30.
This is where a lot of the “wealthy” people (and I use that term loosely) come in. The “wealthy” people usually have an idea of what they want for the future but don’t really know how to get it. They would probably rather pay for a luxury car than drive a truck. But there is a way to figure out what your goals are and be happy with what you get.
